to be a good bf.
Friday, December 17 | 1:27 AM | 0 comments
think i might jitao float up the sky if i happen to heard hubby say this to a girl :D
to be a good boyfriend
1. be patient.
yeh it gets frustrating at time. when a girl can get hell emotional, but have you ever thought the reason why she’s like that is cos of you? sometimes you can let this frustration get to you and spill stupid ass ish outta yo dumb ass mouth and make the situation 10 times worst but just remember a wise homie holds his tongue. don’t try to find stupid lines to get back at her but just let her explain herself. instead keep asking her,she just wants to feel that you care. so when you just get mad and shut em down they feel like theres no point anymore.give them that hope :)
2. be honest
when you say you’re gonna do something.. you better damn do it, girls take alot of things into account.. they say “if you can’t tell me the truth about lil things, how can i trust your word on the bigger things?”. boys, lil things matter as well. so in everything, just be straight up even if she doesn’t like it. it’ll create a deeper trust in the relationship. none of this having to find out is. dont ever break the trust between you and her. its hard to get back once its broken.
3. love her
just love her man! be the man you were when she fell for you. remind her with the lil things you did for her. or even point out things to show her that you really do love her. make her feel special you know. push the inside jokes between u and her. hold her, kiss he. dont get all horny and shii (like alot of you do) just spend some time with her (but dont push the homies out of the way), just make her feel secure and she’ll know that you love her.
4. don’t feed her insecurities
ok alot of girls seem to be insecure about stupid ass stuff, but im not talking about those typa moments and those typa gf’s. i’m talking about a girl being genuinely insecure about something. for example, girls insecure cos she lost it to you and u lost it to some other girl. here’s a good way to solve it, stay away from that chick. i don’t think dudes understand how important it is for a girl to lose it to a guy. a guy just has to stick it in somewhere thats probably why. so wordup if you truly appreciate your girl..shes worth more then all those stupid past and things you use to cling to right? but remember im talking about girls who are genuine not “whos that girl talking on your face book?” - “my cousin” - “stop talking to her” typa wack ass girls.
5. talk it out instead of running away from the situation
as mentioned before. let the girl explain thing. talk things out dont go out for a long ass drive or hang up the fone or even ask her to get to bed and talk tmr morning as its already late. she might just cried the whole night i swear and things will eventually worsen. fix the situation right there and then. trust me it’ll save alot of time and alot of stupid arguments.
6. tell her everything she needs to know
if there a lil things you’ve been hiding. there might actually be big things. stuff that you’ve hidden could effect the relationship later on. i.e the way she perceives you. if you tell her all these things early in the relationship it can strengthen both of u drastically, why? cos you know that she loves you for you and vice versa.
7. be creative
don’t go cliche, but be creative you know…do something most guys wont..yeah most girls will like the regular stuff but they’ll like it more if its different (p.s make sure its a good different lol). plus they can share it to the girlfriends haha.
finally, just wanna say, not every r/s can move on smoothly. if there's any misunderstanding,talk things out before you make a big fuss. maybe after that you will feel that you shouldn't even gets angry in the first place. keep working on it girls (:
1. be patient.
yeh it gets frustrating at time. when a girl can get hell emotional, but have you ever thought the reason why she’s like that is cos of you? sometimes you can let this frustration get to you and spill stupid ass ish outta yo dumb ass mouth and make the situation 10 times worst but just remember a wise homie holds his tongue. don’t try to find stupid lines to get back at her but just let her explain herself. instead keep asking her,she just wants to feel that you care. so when you just get mad and shut em down they feel like theres no point anymore.give them that hope :)
2. be honest
when you say you’re gonna do something.. you better damn do it, girls take alot of things into account.. they say “if you can’t tell me the truth about lil things, how can i trust your word on the bigger things?”. boys, lil things matter as well. so in everything, just be straight up even if she doesn’t like it. it’ll create a deeper trust in the relationship. none of this having to find out is. dont ever break the trust between you and her. its hard to get back once its broken.
3. love her
just love her man! be the man you were when she fell for you. remind her with the lil things you did for her. or even point out things to show her that you really do love her. make her feel special you know. push the inside jokes between u and her. hold her, kiss he. dont get all horny and shii (like alot of you do) just spend some time with her (but dont push the homies out of the way), just make her feel secure and she’ll know that you love her.
4. don’t feed her insecurities
ok alot of girls seem to be insecure about stupid ass stuff, but im not talking about those typa moments and those typa gf’s. i’m talking about a girl being genuinely insecure about something. for example, girls insecure cos she lost it to you and u lost it to some other girl. here’s a good way to solve it, stay away from that chick. i don’t think dudes understand how important it is for a girl to lose it to a guy. a guy just has to stick it in somewhere thats probably why. so wordup if you truly appreciate your girl..shes worth more then all those stupid past and things you use to cling to right? but remember im talking about girls who are genuine not “whos that girl talking on your face book?” - “my cousin” - “stop talking to her” typa wack ass girls.
5. talk it out instead of running away from the situation
as mentioned before. let the girl explain thing. talk things out dont go out for a long ass drive or hang up the fone or even ask her to get to bed and talk tmr morning as its already late. she might just cried the whole night i swear and things will eventually worsen. fix the situation right there and then. trust me it’ll save alot of time and alot of stupid arguments.
6. tell her everything she needs to know
if there a lil things you’ve been hiding. there might actually be big things. stuff that you’ve hidden could effect the relationship later on. i.e the way she perceives you. if you tell her all these things early in the relationship it can strengthen both of u drastically, why? cos you know that she loves you for you and vice versa.
7. be creative
don’t go cliche, but be creative you know…do something most guys wont..yeah most girls will like the regular stuff but they’ll like it more if its different (p.s make sure its a good different lol). plus they can share it to the girlfriends haha.
finally, just wanna say, not every r/s can move on smoothly. if there's any misunderstanding,talk things out before you make a big fuss. maybe after that you will feel that you shouldn't even gets angry in the first place. keep working on it girls (:
signing off
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